Monday, November 11, 2013 Y 14:08
2 months have past for my little sweetheart Mabelle. She is two months old now, I had no much time to update my blog about the process of giving birth due to confinement and the 1 month celebration. So let me bring you to what happen on 31/8. This is the day when Mabelle came to my life....
Before that day I was still with Cherin, Jyothi and Anis. We went to various places like expo, bugis and mustafa. That day I only felt that my back is a bit painful...Went back home quite late and fell asleep due to the tiredness....
Woke up the next day morning to watch Doraemon with hubby...suddenly felt that my back super painful....but I didn't really care as my stomach is not painful at all.... I didn't know that back pain is a symptom of giving birth. We ignore and went downstairs to ntuc to get some baby stuffs like shampoo, pampers and others as the due date is getting nearer.
The more I walk the more pain I feel....it's like my back gonna break into half.... I was afraid and didn't know what happen... Hubby was worried and asked me isit baby coming out? I still tell him but my stomach is not painful, I think should be okay.. Hubby ended calling his relatives and ask how is the feeling and how they know that they were in labour. I then felt a bit of water coming out and my pants is wet.... I was supposed to meet Cherin for lunch and go for Kuei lee party with the other girls...but the pain is scary like my back is breaking into half... Till I really cannot Tahan.. I then decided to go hospital and see how it goes... Hubby is also very scared and he didn't know what to do... He was supposed to go STGCC with his friends so he called to cancelled everything..
We try to find cab but it was a Saturday, every cab is either hired or busy... We waited for half an hour... I was really calling for help... I almost can't walk.. I called my Dad but he didn't answer..so Bee called his friends and see who could help to send me to hospital... Finally His friend Jason say he is coming to fetch us..So when he is on his way, we went back home to pack things, I took a set of baby clothes and my clothes..
After 15 minutes, Jason reached. I get in to the car without bending my head down and i knocked my head against it... So painful... We faster get in and he drives us to NUH... he is supposed to send his parents to lunch but he decided to help us... Really thankful and grateful to him..
In no time, we reached NUH Emergency department. We told the person about my condition and I was put on a wheelchair and send to the delivery suite. I was asked to lie down on the bed and they check everything for me. They say that it is already 5 cm and the baby is confirm coming out today... I was in pain my back super painful... In the whole process, my stomach is not painful at all... Damn weird, In dramas is always stomach pain means in labour why mine is back pain...LOL...
I keep press the button to call the nurse as the pain is unbearable.. The nurse was trying to help and ask me do I want any painkiller to help me... They have things like Laughing gas that will make you drowsy and also Epidural to relieve the pain but I heard that it has side effects so I decided to use the gas instead... The gas had no side effects..
The nurse say, if there is pain.. use the gas.. So I keep using when there is pain.. After a while, a doctor came in and told me it was 7 cm and I can start to push...
So I Push...Push...Push... I can feel my skin tearing... there is blood all over... The doctor asked me not to shout just breathe in and push so I did it like what she say.. it was like passing a super hard motion... I push super hard and i hold beebee hand real tight and push.. After pushing for 10 mins, the head is out... When the head is out, I have totally no stength... The doctor then tell me, we need the body to be out so just a push a little bit more so I push and use all my strength... the doctor say somemore... I really can't and I shouted... I cannot push already... so they managed to help me pulled the body out... Its finally out... I was sweating like hell and I feel like jelly all over... the baby is out, hubby was so happy... the doctor put the baby on top of my body...
But I already have no expression on my face... Hubby smile and say, it is out... Are you happy? I just nod my head... No strength to even talk... Then they proceed to clean the baby and weighted her... She is 3.01Kg.. Healthy and good.
My legs is shaking non stop, the doctor is because i use too much strength... So they help to clean the blood clots and the wound inside... This part is really painful.. I ouch quite a few times..
After cleaning... we have to stay in the room an hour to make sure that everything is okay... The time that Mabelle came out was 3 :37 pm.. My labour pain was 2 hours and I only push for 12 mins... Really proud of myself that I can give birth this fast for my first child...
A lot of my family and friends were waiting for me and baby... After an hour... we are out... I was on the wheelchair carrying baby on the hand... First time carrying a baby and its my own baby...so excited..
Everyone saw me and asked me how am I, they smile and were so happy... They followed me to my ward and they started to questioned me... LOL... I told its not painful, it's like passing motion... They all laughed... I told them the process is fast thats why not so painful... Different people different, some of them have super long hours of labour pain... But I am really lucky... =)
They talked to me and looked at Mabelle.. Thank you friends and family... Love you all... Thank you for waiting for us at the delivery suite.. I will never forget this moment. Really appreciate everyone..
Until 8, the visiting time is over, they left... So I close my eyes and rest ...Really delighted and blessed with so many people caring for us..
I have to stay in the hospital for 2 days with my baby.. Baby was healthy and she could go home with me together on 2/9.. so We went back home and there goes my confinement... Eating all the tonic and everything..
I sneak out a few times on my confinement period though they say I was supposed to stay at home... HAHA..
All this memorable and wonderful... Now... Mabelle is 2 months and I am going back to work real soon so I will cherish my time with her.. Seeing her grow everyday is the happiest thing in my life..
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| So Sweet... |
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| Finally!!! |
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| A month old |
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| 2 Months old... |
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| Cute |
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| Family Photo... |
Thank you Hubby for giving me Mabelle... Love you all... Hope you enjoyed my journey of little Mabelle...
Friday, August 30, 2013 Y 09:00
Sentosa Underwater Cove !!
In our swimming costume!! I miss my flat tummy...=/
A big day of my life.. being a wife of somebody..
Look at our long hair!
This is our short hair...
NOW LOOK AT MY STOMACH!!
Hi people.... I am on my maternity leave already.. I am super super bored everyday! Nowhere to go, nothing to do. I can't stand staying at home, I always try to meet up with friends or go back to my mummy home.
Next week my precious little princess will be due.. Kinda excited for her arrival, I wonder how will she look like. Will she look like her mummy or daddy? If she look like me, she will be damn cute.. HAHA!!
Kinda of in a dilemma now, when she come out, I am gonna have 1 month of confinement and all my life will be different with a kid around. I wonder how is it like, kinda nervous and can't accept the change in my life.. But on the other hand, I wanted to see her and spend time with her.
Humans are always like that, when I am pregnant, I am so excited and want her to come out faster, but now when it is almost due, I am a little nervous and scared to accept the change.
Just like my hair also, when I have long hair, I wanted to cut it short, but after cutting it short, I feel like having long hair again..
Hate this kind of feeling when I can't to do anything to make myself feel better...
Time really fly..Next week will be September le... so fast! It is just 2 months to my birthday.. Can't imagine myself being 22.. No longer 21, a new adult lol!!! In the age of 21, the adult life had started and we wanted to do a lot of things after 21. So talk about what did I accomplished in 21...
In my 21 year old life, I went to perm my hair... I also went to sentosa underwater cove to play with all the slides and rides. After that I found out that I am actually pregnant with a child.. So I got married, applied for a BTO flat in Bukit Batok. I think the next biggest achievement for me will be being a mother of a child. A hot and sexy mama at the age of 21.
Before my 22 birthday, I am so going to get a tattoo on my left back shoulder, most probably it will be a butterfly design.. Still deciding on the design, too many to decide.
One by one of my friends getting old... I am always the last one to turn old.. HEHE~~ From now on, I am gonna repeat that I am 21 years old until my birthday is here... LOL!
Saturday, June 8, 2013 Y 14:15
My blog is full of dust.. It had been ages since I updated my blog! I am so busy nowadays, busy studying, working, doing assignments, going out and busy with everything that you can think of. HAHA~
I'm back!!! I am so bored at home now! Beebee had went to work OT on a Saturday! He had been working hard all this while. Please don't make yourself too tired and have no time for me ok?
I just finish my dumpling festival script.. My childcare is celebrating the festival on Wednesday and they will be having a rehearsal on Monday. The script is all written in chinese and I had to translate it into english.. It's so difficult and challenging. Luckily, I am a A1 student lol!! Thanks to my chinese language standard that I finished translating in just 10 mins! SUPER PROUD OF MYSELF.
Yesterday, went to do the glucose blood test for my pregnancy to check my sugar level. Took two blood test one is the normal one and the other one is after 2 hours. After the first blood test, I was given a glucose drink. I was told to finish it in 10 minutes. So I drank it quite fast, it taste like orange F & N soda drink. After drinking that, I feel weird in my stomach, couldn't take it and ran to the toilet and release it... LOL WTH!!
The nurse then say that it was normal to have the feeling.. and took the second test for me. The blood test result will be out on Monday, just hope that everything will be fine. Thanks to Cherin yesterday for accompanying me for lunch. Loves=)
Many people had been asking me the name of my little princess. I had decided on the name! The chinese name will Jing Xuan （静萱） and the christian name will be Mabelle. So together it will be Koh Jing Xuan Mabelle ~ 许静萱 I can't imagine how wonderful you will be with the wonderful name I had given you. LOL!!
The decision is final, anybody who have comments about this name please keep it to yourself. I wont give a damn, it's my child after all. I have the say! =D
She is 7 months old now, can't wait for her to be born, life will be so wonderful and full of laughter with you and daddy.
Mabelle please be healthy and cute! LOL~ Everybody is so excited. My cousin bought nice and cute shirt, shoes and socks for you. My third aunt even sew a pillow with beans for you.
We love you =) please let me choose natural birth I am super afraid of surgery. I don't want scar and don't want to suffer. I will shout and push like nobody business on the day of delivery. Friends and Family please cheer for me outside!!!
HAHA!!!
Monday, March 25, 2013 Y 11:53
A lot of things happened this weekends~
23/3
I am married to Matthew Koh.. A memorable event that we commemorated at Park Royal Hotel. That day was really messy!! But thanks to all my sisters and friends that make this moment a successful and a delightful one.
My sisters include Cherin Choo, Chen Shijie, Tan Zi Jun, Jyothi, Anis, Kamaliah, Cheong Kuei Lee, Kay Si Ying..
They came to my house early in the morning at 8 plus.. To take photos and joined in the whole day routine. I woke up at 6:30am, my alarm didn't ring! Lucky, my mum wake me up.
I start to make-up at 7am sharp, do my hair and getting myself ready to be the prettiest bride lol! Matthew come so early~ He reached too early, so we let him wait. After my make-over, he took the bouquet on his hands and was told by the photographer to kneel down and kiss the bride. He open my veli and saw my beautiful face.
He was so happy and he smiled so widely. He told me " you are very beautiful!" I was like saying " I know" in my heart...HAHAHA
After that I wore my heels and walked out together with him to the living room. We will suppose to bow to my parents eat a bowl of riceballs and bow to our ancestors.
After that mummy are suppose to take the red umbrella to shelter me until I enter the car.
Then my sisters and his brothers get in the car too. I wave bye bye to mummy while we set off to his parents house at Serangoon.
At his house, his brother Jordan open the car door for us. Now this time, Cherin shelter me with the umbrella up to his house. We went up together and offer the tea to the ancestors. Then we have the tea ceremony with all his relatives. The tea taste super sweet...
We then have some refreshments and drinks before we set off to the hotel.
We reached the hotel early to explore the room. The room was filled with balloons...We planned the seating arrangment for everybody and seated down.
The clock strike 12 and everybody started to help themselves with the food there. I have almost no time to eat, walking around entertaining relatives and shaking hands with them.Taking photos with people.
Soon, its 1pm, our rom ceremony begins, we sat down on the chairs, listen to the solemnizer reading the vow, saying "I do". We signed the agreement and poppers will popped! SO LOUD...One right beside my ear... I am almost deaf!
We exchanged our rings and kissed each other. Then we took photos with the solemnizer. Photos are also taken with our rings.
I went back to talk to the sisters and waited for all my relatives to arrived. After they arrived, we have a tea ceremony with all my relatives. They were happy so are we~
We also took some photos outside the hotel. with some pose. Some pose quite funny and we dont know where to look~
After the buffet, we set off to my house to offer tea to our ancestors.
Then we set off to the last stop. Our chalet~ SO TIRED! I finally took out my heels and wear slippers!! Guest arrived, Pamela and Pei Xian came.. I appreciate it so much! I chat with them asked them about their life and took photos with them.
Buffet food were served and drinks is fruit punch=) We enjoyed the food and drinks there. We also had tea ceremony there for his mother side relatives. Soon its late 9pm. Guests started to leave and make their way home. Sisters went home, Pamela and Px headed home too. Left down with Yuan Feng and Jun Hui with us to stay over at the chalet. We chat, eat tidbits, played poker and slept till Sunday morning.
Sunday morning, they were tired and they went home. As for us, we went breakfast at Mcdonalds. Awesome morning, waking up as husband and wife. The feeling is so different. Everybody was asking me how do I feel on 23/3 but honestly, I had no special feelings that day.. I was in a dilemma, like everything was a dream to me. Too beautiful to be true. Until tomorrow morning, I woke up the next day morning, I saw the ring on my finger and I realised it is true. I start to feel special and shouted I AM MARRIED. I was so happy on sunday! I smile and talk crazy that day lol!!
We went home to put all our things, then Yuanfeng called and say wanted to watch warm bodies. So we set off to Orchard. I returned my gown and we went to Plaza Sing to buy the tickets. The movie was nice and funny! 4 Stars for it!! =)
After the show we shop around and lastly home sweet home.
I am on my marriage leave today till Wednesday! SO free ~
Now my baby is 4 months old, and last week I got to know that my blood type is O positive. Glad that down syndrome for my baby is low risk.
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| Husband and wife! |
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| My sisters and I=) |
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| Pamela and Pei Xian!! |
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| Mummy and Dadddy!! |
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| My dad with all the sisters~ |
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| DID WE JUST KISS? |
I am more excited for the next check up in May to know the gender of the baby.. I hope its a BOY!! Although, Matthew wanted a Girl!! LOL ...Anyway as long as its safe and healthy. No matter what gender, we will still love you!=)More photos can go to my facebook or cherin facebook since she took 300 over photos that day~
Saturday, January 19, 2013 Y 10:48
Another stepping stone of my life. Important responsibility and I had to face it. I had mixed feelings, I don't know is it good or bad? Is it the correct timing? But since it is already like that, I can't run away from the reality. I had to accept it and face it.
Now what I have to do is to take care of myself, not being clumsy anymore, no more heels for this few months. I had to eat healthy, no more seafood, no more SASHIMI=(, no more BEEF=(...
I had no cravings yet but I had morning sickness sometimes, always feel like vomiting but nothing come out from my mouth. Only that day I ate the fish Hor Fun, the fish tasted so raw.. I immediately ran to the toilet and vomit like crazy!!!
I had to have enough rest everyday, go for check-ups to ensure that he/she is healthy. Very coincidentally every time my check-up is Cherin off day. She accompanied me as my "sister", thank you so much, I really appreciate it if not I will be bored to death waiting like an idiot.
Now the size is only as small as a peanut.. or even smaller than a peanut. I had to go back on 28/01 for a more detailed scan.
Please be healthy in me. I will give you happiness and a bright future. No matter how hard it is, I will pull through it with Beebee together. It's a gift to us and we will create happy memories and moments with you.
I love my life no matter what people gonna say, I don't give a damn~ So save your saliva and stay out my business! Get your own life and Fuck off!
I am gonna keep it no matter what. This means a lot to me, he/she is inside me, you have no rights to ask me to abort. I am the only one that can make a decision. Whatever happens, I won't beg you for help. SO, SHUT UP! I WON'T LISTEN, YUP, I AM STUBBORN ALWAYS! I HAVE MY OWN REASONS AND I DON'T THINK THAT I AM WRONG. I KNOW WHAT TO DO, I MAY SEEMS YOUNG TO YOU, BUT I KNOW MORE THAN YOU THINK I DO. DON'T JUDGE ME IF YOU DON'T KNOW OR UNDERSTAND ME.DON'T MAKE DECISION FOR ME, I KNOW HOW TO MAKE MY OWN DECISION.IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anyway, our important day will be in March 2013. Friends that are invited please attend and make this day a memorable one. Thank you so much!
Monday, November 26, 2012 Y 11:01
Thank you friends for celebrating with me this wonderful moments and all the presents that you had given me =) This are the photos of my amazing presents.
Sunday, November 25, 2012 Y 08:04
Happy birthday to myself =) Its my important day today and I am turning 21. Finally this special moment had arrived, being an adult, doing everything I want to do. I am so excited till I woke up so early in the morning, So many wishes over my facebook and phone.
Thank you so much for wishing me, I will never forget all my friends =) Hope later I will receive wonderful presents from you guys and gals. This year, a lot of friends had been asking me, what do you want for your present. I Had nothing specific in mind, I just need anything I like and I will appreciate it.
So friends, this will test how much you know me and also thank you for your time for choosing my wonderful presents and writing a very meaningful card.
Later I will be having a celebration at Bugis Intercontinental Hotel, hope it will be a blast. I will take lots of photos. Hope all my friends will enjoy this celebration with me. This is the first time celebrating my birthday at a hotel. Food had been prepared for all of you, since it is buffet, you can take as much as you can.
I can start to have fun watching R21, going to casino and sex shop... LOL!!!
On this happiest day of November, I wish everyone enjoy this awesome day with me =)
